"Be Your No. 1 Priority"

We must be our own priorites. Alot of us have bad priority systems. We all know we must put God first. But where do we fall. There's our men, our children, mothers and father, sisters, brothers, nieces and nephews. Where do we put ourselves? 99 percent of the time we are last on the list. Many women have stop living and just exist. Existing without knowing what our purpose is. We all have a purpose.

There is nothing wrong with supporting others, but why do we let ourselves go? Is it because youre afraid of what others might feel about you. Dont allow others to determine your self worth. They say that women often wear their exhaustion as a badge of honor. Doing more for others than we do for ourselves. This is no longer acceptable ladies. We must rework the equation, so that we stop putting others first. If we do not begin placing ourselves number 1 on the list, in the long run we will not only hurt ourselves but the others that have depended upon us.Reach within ladies and bring yourselves back alive. You have the power to turn it around.

Like I said before if you knew that you were dying today and you had to make out a list of what you have accomplished and not accomplished for YOURSELF. Which list would be longer?You have the power to start changing that so that your accomplishments can be much more.Today, I celebrate the power within to change.

Let go and live

Love Jae

"Live Your Best LIfe"

Oprah has a saying "Live Your Best Life". This means following your passions and your dreams. Our dreams should be much bigger than making it on Lil Jon's video. Women all over the world have fell into the unfortunate trap of thinking they have to be perfect in order to move ahead. If their not perfect they lead themselves to believe that they have nothing to offer to anyone, not even to themselves. Ladies, this is not the case. We all have something to offer, no one is ever limited to just their looks. I watch the videos and see all the women shaking their booties on the screen. And yes sometimes I would say to myself that I would like to dance too but I know that I have more to offer, but alot of these women dont feel that way. A lot of these women feel that they are limited and this is all they can offer to the world.

We must reach beyond the physical. Yes, we must take care of our bodies, eat healthy and excercise. But when you think that all you have to offer is a big butt or chest this is a serious problem, your self-esteem is low. Remember, those breast wont be perky forever, so what do you do then, begin having surgeries over and over again? No ladies that is not the answer!

Think about other things, set goals for yourselves. Concentrate on things that you would like to accomplish? Your goals should be much bigger than than trying to make it on the next Ying Yang Twins video just so they can disrepect you. There must be more, there has to be more. We all posess more.

Take control of your life and stop allowing others to control it for you. Let go and live. "Live your best life" possible. If you knew you were dying tomorrow and you started writing down the things in your life that you have and have not accomplished. Which list would be longer?Let go and live!

Celebrate yourselves as you are!

You are phenomenal!!!!

Love Always, Jae

A Meeting Place for all women of all ages to share ideas on how to honor and revitalize our phenomenal selves

Many women have begun to loose their phenomenal selves. You can see the essence of them slipping away into a pit of darkness. They are becoming dull and lifeless. They've allowed the world to tell them who they should be and what they should be. I've made a personal decision to encourage and inspire all women to begin revitalizing themselves. We cannot standby and watch our phenomenal women slip into darkness. These are the women that carry common faces so often times they are overlooked by society. We must make it our mission to give them a light of hope so that they may SHINE again.

Please take the time out today and recognize yourself and others as a phenomenal woman. Share with us on how you find balance in your everyday life. If balance is something that you are working towards please share with us the steps you are beginning to take. If success is something you are working towards, please share your steps. Whatever it is, whatever you are doing to revitalize and recreate yourself share it with the many women who are looking to do the same.

Dont allow yourself to slip!

Revitalize your Phenomenal Self
Love Jae