"Live Your Best LIfe"

Oprah has a saying "Live Your Best Life". This means following your passions and your dreams. Our dreams should be much bigger than making it on Lil Jon's video. Women all over the world have fell into the unfortunate trap of thinking they have to be perfect in order to move ahead. If their not perfect they lead themselves to believe that they have nothing to offer to anyone, not even to themselves. Ladies, this is not the case. We all have something to offer, no one is ever limited to just their looks. I watch the videos and see all the women shaking their booties on the screen. And yes sometimes I would say to myself that I would like to dance too but I know that I have more to offer, but alot of these women dont feel that way. A lot of these women feel that they are limited and this is all they can offer to the world.

We must reach beyond the physical. Yes, we must take care of our bodies, eat healthy and excercise. But when you think that all you have to offer is a big butt or chest this is a serious problem, your self-esteem is low. Remember, those breast wont be perky forever, so what do you do then, begin having surgeries over and over again? No ladies that is not the answer!

Think about other things, set goals for yourselves. Concentrate on things that you would like to accomplish? Your goals should be much bigger than than trying to make it on the next Ying Yang Twins video just so they can disrepect you. There must be more, there has to be more. We all posess more.

Take control of your life and stop allowing others to control it for you. Let go and live. "Live your best life" possible. If you knew you were dying tomorrow and you started writing down the things in your life that you have and have not accomplished. Which list would be longer?Let go and live!

Celebrate yourselves as you are!

You are phenomenal!!!!

Love Always, Jae